Fighting and Conflict Webinar Series

How to Fight and Win with No Losers

“Intimacy is forged in the crucible of conflict.” Gordon Bear
Good, fair fights can be a very positive experience in drawing couples closer together.  The skills and techniques we teach have proven successful for thousands of couples.

In This Webinar series you will learn to:

“Whenever we start to fight we break out the GTO’s Rules for Fighting to make sure we fight fair. They help us resolve our conflict without harming each other.  We are so glad to have this resource.”  Ed & Jolene Q., California

Three Webinar Summaries

Seven Rules of Engagement

This webinar gives you 7 rules for fighting fair that will help protect you and your spouse from doing irreparable harm to each other when you fight. Good fights provide doors to closeness WHEN you fight fair.

More Rules of Engagement

This webinar gives you 7 more rules for fighting fair that will help protect you and your spouse from inflicting deep wounds in each other when you fight. When you practice all the Rules of Engagement you will end up closer than when you first had the disagreement.

Breaking the Cycle of Fighting

In this webinar you will learn how to recognize your pattern of fighting and how to break it. Whether you realize it or not, you and your spouse have your unique pattern of fighting. This webinar will help you discover that pattern, as well as how to put a stop to the pattern altogether.

Testimony by K and S, Lancaster, South Carolina

“The first time we saw you… our marriage was on the rocks. By God working through your ministry and the ministry of others, we were able to see that there was a future. We both thank God every day that we attended….”

Testimony by Tracey & Molly W., Georgia

“Through the training you gave us and God’s miraculous Word we [taught] a conference on Song of Solomon. We talked about different ‘little foxes’ that steal the fruit of our marriages… things that hurt our marriages like bitterness, lack of contentment…. Thanks to your training we feel it was a great conference….”

Testimony by Lesa & Dale W., Virginia

“I just wanted to tell you what an inspiration you have been to us and that we have passed many of your stories and advice on to friends and family. So glad to see that God is still working through you to equip marriages across our country.”

How to Stop Fighting Losing Battles and Start Winning!

Meet the Presenters

Harold and Bette Gillogly

Harold and Bette Gillogly have been involved in ministering to couples since they were married in 1966.  After years of counseling with hurting couples and serving in various couple ministries, they founded GTO (Growing Toward Oneness) Marriage Ministries in 1983.  Since then, they have conducted marriage enrichment programs and placed 50 different webinars up on their website –

Why not Start Fighting Right Now?

Learn the Rules of Engagement so Your Fights succeed, not Hurt and Fail!