How to Experience Oneness as a Married Couple

An interactive couples' study book for deepening intimacy and closeness

This is a book you don't just read! This is a book you DO! You get to interact with each other through all twelve chapters. You and your spouse will discover answers to dilemmas like: "How do we fight fair?" "How can we make decisions together without conflict?" "How can we develop real intimacy?" All of these questions can be answered when you apply God's principles He lays out in His Word. This book can help you apply these Biblical principles in your marriage and find true harmony.

Experiencing oneness

Use this Interactive Study to:

  • Grow closer to your mate by applying God's principles of relationship
  • Experience intimacy with each other and with God in practical ways
  • Learn how to deal with anger and conflict constructively
  • Find out how to reach decisions that both you and your spouse fully agree on
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“The chapter on Couple Decisions in Experiencing Oneness has been instrumental in bringing a Godly balance to our decision making process. Now we make decisions we can both own, this translates into peace and unity instead of strife and contention.”  Thomas & Cynthia H., Tennessee

"We have had difficulty in discussing a particular subject the past few years. We both would start blaming one another and could never come to a mutual conclusion. However, since reviewing Thot-Talk from Experiencing Oneness and much prayer, we discovered more positive ways to communicate, and have resolved this difficult issue in our lives." Michael & Tracey B., Tennessee

Table of Contents

  • Chapter 1: Communication

    Discover the 6 techniques of communication to avoid and the 4 techniques to practice to succeed in communicating with your spouse.

  • Chapter 2: Thot-Talk

    Learn how to battle the four mind tricks that destroy real connection with the ones you love. Win the battle for our minds that we all fight.

  • Chapter 3: Handling Anger

    Determine which of the 3 causes of anger drive you and find out how to handle your anger in a healthy and Biblical way.

  • Chapter 4: Fighting Fair

    When you fight, and every couple does, you can actually find real benefits and increase your closeness. Learn how to not “just fight.”  Learn how to Fight Fair.

  • Chapter 5: Constructive Conflict

    Intimacy CAN be forged through conflict when you apply this chapter’s advice on differences, power struggles, faulty communication and handling conflict constructively.

  • Chapter 6: Couple Decision-Making

    Learn why you need to make couple decisions in your marriage.  When you apply these seven guidelines, you will avoid many hasty, bad decisions.

  • Chapter 7: Romance and Sex

    Apply the practical do’s of keeping romance and intimacy alive in marriage and avoid growing apart through all the stages of marriage.  Plus get advice on over 25 of the most frequently asked sex questions.

  • Chapter 8: Relationship Skills

    Revolutionize your relationships by practicing the ten principles that can turn the negatives around in your marriage. Negatives like criticism, gossip, manipulation, cutting words, failure, etc. – you  can turn them all into positives.

  • Chapter 9: Effective Financial Planning

    Learn solid Biblical principles on finance, the financial process, various insurance reviews, budgeting, taxes, retirement and investment all rolled into one chapter.

  • Chapter 10: Couple Goal Setting

    Make sure you and your spouse are aiming for the same goals in life! In this chapter, each mate will set goals in nine different areas of life and marriage. You can help each other reach your goals by working on them together.

  • Chapter 11: Commitment

    Love is a decision, not just an emotion.  Learn how to practice love choices by practically ministering to each other.

  • Chapter 12: Spiritual Intimacy

    Explore the seven elements of spiritual intimacy and discover how your marriage can be enriched by each of these seven areas.

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Meet the Authors

Harold and Bette Gillogly

Harold and Bette Gillogly have been involved in ministering to couples since they were married in 1966.  After years of counseling with hurting couples and serving in various couple ministries, they founded GTO (Growing Toward Oneness) Marriage Ministries in 1983.  Since then, they have conducted hundreds of marriage enrichment programs, written two marriage books and many magazine articles and taught 50 different webinars which are available on their website -

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