by Harold & Bette Gillogly The teacher was blunt, her words cruel. “He has too many learning disabilities. It’s a waste of time for him to even attend school here.” Later, Ralph Showers overheard his Grandmother soothing his parents with this great declaration. “I don’t know what people think of Ralph. But I know what […]
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Place Your Marriage First
Commitment Joy & Happiness Marital Intimacy Persevering Love Relationship Skillsby Bob & Yvonne Turnbull Have you noticed that too much hurry and speed of life can put a serious crimp in a marriage? We often think we will have time for one another when life slows down. Interesting how that time never seems to arrive. Before we know it, we have drifted apart in […]
If We Do Not See Each Other Again
Joy & Happiness Relationship Skillsby Bob & Yvonne Turnbull It was two or three days after the horrendous 9-11 terrorist attack in 2001 when we listened with heavy hearts to a woman being interviewed on TV. Through her tears she sobbed that the last words her husband heard from her were, “I wish I had never married you!” She had slammed the door […]
Done Dirty – Do Good
Decision Making Joy & Happiness Tough TimesThe Fourth of July – a time for hot dogs on the grill, homemade ice cream and shimmering rivers of lights cascading down the night sky. But the holiday is a difficult one for Steve. When he was eight years old, his brother drowned in a boating accident on one particularly hot July Fourth. After […]
A Study of B-O-B Hope
Joy & Happiness Spiritual Intimacyby Harold & Bette Gillogly When people talk about hope, what they usually mean is “wish.” “I hope this will happen.” “I wish that would happen.” But when the Bible speaks of hope, what it means is “confidence.” Because of who God is, and what He has done in the past, we are confident of […]
Happiness… And How to Get It
Decision Making Joy & Happiness Spiritual Intimacyby Harold and Bette Gillogly It worked for the Psalmist. When David wrote Psalm 30, he wasn’t simply writing nice lyrics to fit a tune. These words are TRUTH and they are powerful: You turned my wailing into dancing; you removed my sackcloth and clothed me with joy, that my heart may sing to you […]
How to Have Joy in your Marriage
Communication Joy & HappinessAuthors: Bill and Bridget Dunk Today’s society would have you believe all you need to be happy is that new car – that new job – the latest and greatest gadget – even a new hair color has the promise of happiness in “television land.” But happiness is NOT what we need – it is […]
Kick ’em Out of the Bedroom
Joy & Happiness Marital Intimacy Persevering LoveNo, we’re not talking about kicking your spouse out. We’re talking about kicking out a couple of habits you may have developed in your marriage relationship. If you are going to experience joy in your sexual relationship, these two habits have gotta go! Demanding Has Gotta Go: 1 Corinthians 7:3-5 is an often misunderstood Scripture. […]
Couples Rejoice (Pt. 3 of 3)
Joy & Happinessby Harold and Bette Gillogly In the last two Seeds we have talked about how we can rejoice with our mates, celebrating our love and oneness. By using C-E-L-E-B-R-A-T-I-N-G as an acrostic, we have discussed specific, practical ways to fill our marriages full of joy. The first eights letters of CELEBRATING have been used, so […]
Couples Rejoice (Pt. 2 of 3)
Joy & Happinessby Harold and Bette Gillogly Has there been a celebration at your house since the last SEEDS FOR GROWTH? A celebration of your love for one another? We hope so. It is our prayer for every couple to make “rejoicing” the key characteristic of their marriage? We hope you have made a decision to put […]