To Be or To Do?

By Harold and Bette Gillogly You would think that with a Seminary education, many years of ministry as well as many years “under the belt” (and over half a century of marriage now), one would have only marginal life-changing lessons yet to apply – WRONG! Bette and I have learned a great deal over the […]

Spiritual What?

It isn’t something we hear much about.  Haven’t seen many books about it.  Haven’t heard any preachers preach about it.  And yet, it’s probably one of the most important issues in a Christian couple’s relationship….Spiritual intimacy. We hear a lot about physical intimacy — the uninhibited sharing of ourselves through our bodies. All one has […]

How Can We Change?

by Harold & Bette Gillogly Life often gets tense and intense. Where has the laughter gone?  Larry and Helen’s relationship is drying up because there’s no more fun in it.  They want the joy back.  But how?  What can they do to change their lives, their relationship?  Can they change? George has a problem.  He […]

Win the Battle of the Mind

by Harold and Bette Gillogly Would you say a topic is important if the Bible speaks about it over 300 times?  If you do, then this subject – Thot-talk – is extremely important — to God and to us.  It is so important, in fact, that Proverbs 23:7 states, As a man thinks within himself, […]

Handling Anger in Conflict

by Harold and Bette Gillogly It seems like we’ve been talking about fighting an awfully long time, doesn’t it?   But there is a reason for it.  For far too many Christian couples, Holy Wedlock has become Holy Deadlock.  From our experience, we have to agree with counselors who declare that conflict is the greatest cause […]

The Day I Knew I Knew

by Bette Gillogly I was hot and tired as I trudged back to the women’s dorm.  The afternoon was too warm for early October in the mountains of Southern West Virginia.  And after cleaning every bathroom on campus – without air conditioning, I might add – I was ready for an ice cold drink and […]